Thursday, September 3, 2009

Watch out, I might CRITICIZE YOU!

Did you all know that I'm too "critical"?

I've been told that again today. The first time was about two weeks ago from my MOTHER. I'm too critical of her. Ouch.

Today my daughter told me I was too critical when I was complaining about a friend of mine. I actually cried.

Maybe I have PMS. Yeah that must be the reason for the weepy eyes.

Or maybe it's just that two of the people that I am closest to have found fault in my character. Is it wrong to tell someone what I think? Should I allow someone to say something over and over again that I truely thing is wrong? Should I let someone go on doing something that I think is dangerous to their mental health and affects our WHOLE family because it's the "nice" thing to do?

I guess I shouldn't critize my friend for jumping at the chance to take over everyone's lives but her own. Of course I don't say anything to her face. I was just venting to my daughter.

Turns out I'm just a mean bitch.

Never mind all the good things I do and that I hardly ever carry on a conversation with anyone by actually forming the words with my mouth.

Maybe I'm just tired.

Tired of seeing a big fat freaking mess everytime I go somewhere. Tired of watching someone throw their money away. Tired of someone ditching me to take care of all her other more important people.

Although maybe if I wasn't so CRITICAL I would have more friends.

yeah yeah, that's the ticket.Pin It


Sarah said...

Don't be so hard on yourself!!!!!! I think you need to go fly to Texas, have a girls night out and go to a spa...YEAH!! Ok..sounds like a plan!! :O)

Barb said...

I think everyone goes through times like this. Hang in there ~ We all know how great you really are!

Carin said...

HUGS Julie! Don't be down on yourself. Maybe they are just being to critical ;O).

Susie said...

OMG Julie I swear we live parelle lives! I feel your pain. Hang in there!

Chris H said...


~Sheila~ said...

No, it's just your nature. It's how you express what you think is wrong. Don't worry about it. I was told that I bite everyone's head off. Especially when I was going to school. My professors would tell me that I scared them a little because I would snap at them.


No tears lady. Be strong. No one wants their flaws pointed out but now that you have..they will take more notice of themselves.

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